Had I known that my husband’s knees would go out on him this year, I would not be living in this house.
Had I known this fact, in advance, there is no way I would have even considered living in this house—nor be in the process of purchasing it.
I mean—this house is a second marriage to start. It requires endless renovations. And it’s okay—but we knew that going in. So THAT (the need of endless renovations) was upfront with us and quite visible.
As was the coal furnace. But I am married to a man that takes care of the coal for me.
But then life hit us and sat my husband down.
Which has left me lifting 200pounds of coal every couple days.
This morning, my hair did not feel like hair. It felt like ashes. It smelled like coal. And my nose still blows black. Wonder what the doctors would make of that?
You see, though—This thing “HAD I KNOWN” is just what we don’t know.
And, therefore, we enter life with a whole bunch of unknowns.
Perhaps you have so many HAD I KNOWN moments in your life:
Had I known my marriage would not work…
Had I known my loved one would not be here this year…
Had I known my health would not always be with me…
Had I known my job would not be secure…
Had I known…Had I known…Had I known…
My friends. We don’t know. And that’s a certainty we can be sure of.
Sure, in some situations in life, we can be aware that something may go in a certain direction…But in many HAD I KNOWN situations in life, we just don’t know before it happens.
So the question is—What are you doing about it? What are you going to do about it? What will you keep doing about it?
You are here. In this place of HAD I KNOWN and now it’s your turn to realize that you can’t look back and change the past…You are here.
What are you going to do about where you are?